Nina Dobrev, Steven R. McQueen & Hillary Harley at People’s Comic Con Photobooth
I tried my hardest to ignore this ship war that developed yesterday bc I felt it was nonsense but these attacks are getting extreme.
It’s really sad how bad this Nian/Dobsley war has escalated and now has been brought into the Delena/Stelena ships. Everyone needs to step back and BREATHE and recognize that real life has very little to do with their careers. You cannot say that Nina hates Paul or Stelena fans because she pulled out of one event. She could have had schedule conflicts with Perks promo or character research for Elena’s turn, or hell maybe she just wanted a day off or wanted to give Paul and Torrey some alone time together. Or maybe something serious and personal is going on with her or her family. No one knows and it’s no one’s business. But it’s really frustrating that you guys are making this into a full-blown war. You’re disrespecting Nina and Ian, calling them fame whores and assholes and everything else, and you’re pointing fingers at the fans saying it’s their fault bc they “encourage” them to “be out”, and now people are even saying that Nina/Ian are going to be what “fails” Stefan/Elena in S4??? Really?? It’s inevitable that things are going to change in S4 and there’s been far too much build up with Damon/Elena for them to not happen, but stop making mountains out of molehills. All of this is crazy. Give Nina the benefit of the doubt. Maybe she pulled out now so she could do an event with Paul later, without so much scheduling and chaos. Who the heck knows.
And now you have SOME Stelena fans attacking Nian/Delena fans bc of something that SOME Dobsley and SOME Stelena fans (NOTE: NOT ALL!! So don’t aim at all of them or all of us Delena/Nian fans!!) started, which of course, gives people a bad taste in their mouths and makes their whole “group” look bad. But come on. This is just pathetic and everyone needs to grow the hell up and stop this middle school she-took-my-crayon bullshit. We are a fandom. START ACTING LIKE IT!